An Unexpected Lesson in Resilience
By Nelda Rodillo | Founder of Vintage Vitality™ | Creator of The Unfreezing Hour™
For years, I have taught Tai Chi and fall prevention to older adults.
I teach balance, posture, body awareness, strength, and mindful movement. I encourage participants to move with intention, reduce their risk of falling, and build confidence in their daily lives.
Then, on the morning of May 29, I fell.
It was the last day of my nearly two-month stay in the Philippines. Early that morning, our cat was trying to open a closet door near where my head was resting. Still half asleep, I stood up quickly, lost my footing, and fell.
Instinctively, I used my left hand to break the fall.
The result was a fractured wrist.
As I sat in the emergency room after returning to Canada, one thought crossed my mind:
“How can someone who teaches fall prevention end up falling?”
The more I reflected on that question, the more I realized it revealed a common misunderstanding about fall prevention.
One of the most common misconceptions about fall prevention is the idea that it should prevent all falls.
In reality, no program, exercise, or practice can guarantee that a person will never fall.
Life does not work that way.
Even highly trained professionals can experience unexpected events:
A physiotherapist can still get injured.
A driving instructor can still be involved in a collision.
A nutritionist can still become ill.
A Tai Chi teacher can still fall.
These experiences do not invalidate their knowledge or expertise.
They simply remind us that we are human.
Fall prevention is not about perfection or immunity.
It is about reducing risk, improving awareness, building strength, and increasing our ability to respond when life does not go as planned.
When I lost my balance, there was no time to analyze or decide.
My body reacted instinctively.
Looking back, I am grateful that my injury was limited to my wrist. Had I landed differently, the outcome could have involved my hip, knee, ankle, or head—injuries that would have had a far greater impact on my mobility and teaching.
While I would never choose a fractured wrist, I am thankful that I can still walk, move, and continue my work during recovery.
Sometimes, our bodies do the best they can in a fraction of a second.
One of the things I teach is that resilience matters just as much as prevention.
After the injury, I sought medical care and followed up with an orthopedic specialist. I am now wearing a removable brace, and I have been encouraged to begin gentle wrist movement as part of my recovery.
Recovery has become part of my practice.
It is teaching me patience, adaptability, and humility.
This experience has not changed my belief in Tai Chi.
If anything, it has strengthened it.
Tai Chi teaches us to adapt to changing circumstances rather than resist them.
It teaches us to work with the body rather than against it.
It teaches us to remain calm, present, and responsive when life does not go according to plan.
These are not abstract ideas.
They are lived experiences.
And I am living them now.
I will continue teaching.
I will continue sharing Tai Chi, mindful movement, and fall prevention strategies with older adults.
And I will continue learning.
Because sometimes life teaches the teacher.
This recent fall reminded me that healthy aging is not about avoiding every challenge.
It is about building the strength, awareness, resilience, and grace to navigate those challenges when they come.
Falls can happen to anyone.
What matters is how we prepare, how we respond, and how we move forward afterward.
That, perhaps, is one of the most important lessons Tai Chi has to offer.
Tai Chi has always been more than movement for me. It is a way of understanding life.
It reminds us that balance is not static—it is constantly adjusting. It reminds us that strength is not rigidity—it is adaptability. And it reminds us that even when we are momentarily unsteady, we can recover, re-centre, and continue forward.
My wrist is healing.
My teaching continues.
And my commitment to helping others move with confidence, dignity, and vitality remains unchanged.
In this season of healing, I find myself returning to the quiet wisdom of Tai Chi and mindful movement. What once were separate reflections are now part of a living thread—one that weaves together aging, resilience, and the art of staying present in a changing body and life.
Each step of this journey reminds me that growth does not stop with age or challenge; it simply takes on new forms. Through every experience, I continue to learn how to move with more awareness, more gentleness, and a deeper sense of vitality.
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Nelda Rodillo is a certified movement educator and the founder of Vintage Vitality™, a holistic wellness philosophy designed to empower adults aged 50 and older to age with dignity, strength, and quiet joy. A certified instructor in Tai Chi for Arthritis and Fall Prevention and a 200-hour Certified Yoga Teacher (YTT-200), she is best known as the creator of The Unfreezing Hour™, a specialized Tai Chi program focused on building emotional and physical resilience.
Through her platform, Daily Movement with Nelda, she bridges community-based wellness across two continents, serving practitioners in Ontario, Canada—including the Town of Minto and Wellington County—and the Philippines. Her work is rooted in the belief that mindful movement, breath, and creative expression are essential tools for maintaining vitality and connection at every stage of life.
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