By Nelda Rodillo | Author and Creator of Vintage Vitality™
In one of my recent Tai Chi classes, a question came up—one that I hear often.
As we practiced a Sun-style Tai Chi extension—turning to face the left side, and then the right—many of my students noticed something interesting:
Even though we learn the left side first, the right side feels easier, more natural, and more comfortable.
So naturally, the question arises:
“Why does this happen?”
If you’ve ever experienced this in your own practice, you’re not alone. And more importantly—there’s nothing wrong.
Most of us have a dominant side, just like being right-handed or left-handed.
This affects more than just writing. It influences:
Balance
Strength
Coordination
Confidence in movement
Even if you practice the left side first, your body may still feel more stable and coordinated on the right side.
Your brain is wired to move efficiently on your dominant side.
This means:
Movements feel smoother
Transitions feel more natural
You feel more confident and in control
On the non-dominant side, you may notice:
Hesitation
Less coordination
A need to “think through” the movement
And that’s completely normal.
Just because you learn something first doesn’t mean it will feel easier right away.
There’s a difference between:
Learning a movement
Integrating a movement into your body
Your nervous system is still developing:
Muscle memory
Balance awareness
Spatial coordination
Your left side simply needs time to catch up and integrate.
One of the beautiful aspects of Tai Chi is that it doesn’t hide imbalance—it reveals it softly.
Instead of forcing symmetry, Tai Chi invites you to:
Notice differences
Move with curiosity
Develop balance over time
For adults over 50, this is especially meaningful.
Because balance is not just physical—it’s connected to:
Confidence
Safety
Independence
Rather than trying to “fix” the weaker side, approach it with gentleness.
Here are a few ways to support your practice:
Slow the movement down
Shift your weight with awareness
Keep your knees soft and relaxed
Breathe steadily as you turn
Focus on feeling rather than performing
You might also pause and ask yourself:
Where is my weight right now?
Am I holding tension anywhere?
Can I soften just a little more?
Over time, the unfamiliar side becomes more familiar.
In Vintage Vitality™, movement is only part of the practice.
We also create space to reflect, listen, and deepen awareness.
When one side feels easier than the other, it can be an invitation—not just physically, but personally.
This gentle combination can help you:
Deepen your mind-body connection
Increase self-awareness
Recognize patterns of comfort and resistance
Cultivate patience and self-compassion
Support emotional and mental well-being
Take a quiet moment before moving on with your day:
Sit comfortably with both feet grounded
Take a few slow, steady breaths
Notice how each side of your body feels
Observe without judgment
Then, open your journal.
What feels natural and easy right now?
Where do I notice hesitation?
What might this be teaching me?
Which side felt stronger or more stable?
Which side needed more attention or patience?
Did I notice tension, ease, or resistance?
Over time, you may begin to notice:
A connection between movement and life patterns
Greater trust in your body
A shift from frustration to curiosity
Subtle but meaningful progress
In Tai Chi—and in life—balance is not about making both sides equal.
It is about learning to:
Move with awareness
Adjust with kindness
Grow with patience
Each step. Each shift. Each reflection.
This is how we cultivate strength, grace, and vitality from the inside out.
This is the essence of Vintage Vitality™.
Ready to explore more gentle pathways? Return to the Start Here page and discover other ways to move, reflect, and reconnect at your own pace.
For a closer look at how balance develops through movement, visit The Rhythm of Balance: Side Step in Sun Style Tai Chi.
For a deeper look at building stability and ease, visit Tai Chi for Arthritis and Fall Prevention: Finding Ease in the Sun Style.
When one side feels tighter or less responsive, a little daily nourishment can help. How to “Oil Your Joints” with 3-Minute Circular Movements offers a simple way to restore ease and mobility.
And when things feel a little unsteady, remember that this is part of the journey. In The Wobble Is Part of Life: Finding Balance in Body and Mind, we explore how those movements of imbalance can gently guide us back to center.
As we bring harmony to the body, we can also nurture the mind. In Why Your Mind Needs a Journal: The Science of "Mental Vitality", we gently explore how writing can support clarity, calm and inner balance.
Ready to join a class? Click here to find Daily Movement with Nelda on Google Maps and explore our gentle Tai Chi sessions in the Town of Minto. Move with community, confidence, and quiet joy.
Nelda Rodillo is a Certified Instructor in Tai Chi for Arthritis and Fall Prevention and a 200-hour Certified Yoga Teacher (YTT-200). She is the founder of Vintage Vitality™, a philosophy and practice dedicated to helping adults 50+ move mindfully, age gracefully, and live with strength, creativity, and purpose. Through her work in long-term care and community programs, Nelda inspires individuals to embrace movement, mindfulness, and joyful connection at every stage of life.
She believes that movement, breath, and creativity can help us age with dignity, strength, and quiet joy.
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